Basis for Marriage (Paul Poponoe)
    1. Biological mating urge
    2. Economic security & divison of labor
    3. Sexually colored comradeship
    4. Non-Sexually colored comradeship
    5. Interest in home & children

People marry because marriage is the
socially accepted pattern through which
they can most satisfactorily achieve
certan desired ends & satisfy certain 
innate or acquired urges, some
of which may be achieved or satisfied
to a degree without marriage

It takes time to develop real love
It comes only when two individuals
have reoriented their lives, each with
the other as a new focal point

Aid to determine whether or not one is
   in love:
      1. Do you like to be in the company
of the other person?  Do you prefer
that person's company to anyone else's?
      2. Is he